A Lesson For Those Who Love

Prologue

Fate often reveals its harshness, wouldn’t you agree? Regardless of how fervently we pray or how tirelessly we strive, it frequently seems as though the world is inclined to favour those draped in the warm embrace of good fortune. This perception can feel overwhelming, as if luck waltzes around certain individuals, showering them with gifts and opportunities while leaving others to linger in the shadows of obscurity and disappointment.

In our day-to-day experiences, it’s easy to fixate on the perceived inequities that shape our lives. We witness others sailing through life, seemingly unburdened by the weight of challenges that often overwhelm us. It's disheartening to think that no matter how hard we work or how dedicated we are, some still appear to glide effortlessly through their endeavours, while we struggle to gain even a small foothold in our aspirations. This disparity can plant seeds of resentment and discouragement, leading us to question the very nature of fairness in a world that seems to celebrate the fortunate.

Perhaps this inclination to focus on the misfortunes of our own lives is simply woven into the fabric of our human nature. We often overlook the multitude of blessings that quietly surround us, perpetually yearning for what remains just out of reach. When we see others flourish, we might feel our own dreams fade further from our grasp. Our aspirations, when left unfulfilled, ignite feelings of inadequacy and doubt that challenge our sense of self-worth. It becomes almost instinctual to redirect our frustration toward the universe itself, to attribute our struggles to the capricious whims of fate. In these moments, we wrestle with the notion that we’ve been dealt a hand that is inherently unjust, leaving us feeling alienated and cynical.

In our moments of despair and vulnerability, we might find ourselves uttering words that lack sincerity or acting in ways that starkly diverge from our true character. When frustration takes the helm, we often seek an outlet for our anguish, leading to actions that may not reflect our values or who we aspire to be. This behaviour is frequently driven by the deep-seated yearning for a brighter, more fulfilling reality. Our longing for change can incite us to lash out, to blame our circumstances for our woes. It’s easier, in some respects, to point fingers at external forces rather than to confront our own challenges head-on.

Yet, within this tumult, we must strive to recognize the complexity of our circumstances and the hidden blessings that may lie beneath the surface. Life invariably presents us with trials, but often, those very challenges serve as catalysts for growth and resilience. By shifting our focus from what we lack to what we possess, we can start to appreciate the smaller victories and the moments of joy that punctuate our lives, even amid adversity.

It is crucial to remind ourselves that everyone’s journey is fraught with obstacles and that comparisons can often lead us astray. In accepting our path, with its unique set of trials and triumphs, we can cultivate a sense of gratitude that empowers us rather than diminishes us. Ultimately, it’s about finding beauty in the struggle and learning to navigate the intricate dance of fate with grace, resilience, and an open heart. Embracing the complexity of life may guide us toward a more profound understanding of our own fortune and allow us to focus on the blessings that surround us.

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I chase after you as I drift off,

waking up with my hand reaching towards empty space.

The only heaven worth wanting is your smile and

I see your face in my dreams every night like it's all a beautiful broken

record.

It's skipping on the part where you say

you love me back.

And if fate means being asleep forever,

I'll close my eyes and stay right where I

waiting for you

-Be Still