Austin, it seems as though you are trying to trigger Xander’s PTSD. maybe you aren’t, but saying things like, how you want to get away, can come off as uncaring. I understand you have your fears (and trust me they’re very valid fears), but you can’t just speak to someone that has trauma related to loss, and tell them you just don’t want to be around them. You need to set clear boundaries to protect yourself, but be mindful of his feelings.
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Austin, it seems as though you are trying to trigger Xander’s PTSD. maybe you aren’t, but saying things like, how you want to get away, can come off as uncaring. I understand you have your fears (and trust me they’re very valid fears), but you can’t just speak to someone that has trauma related to loss, and tell them you just don’t want to be around them. You need to set clear boundaries to protect yourself, but be mindful of his feelings.
2025-03-27
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