We all have faced various phases and types of love.
We all have met few strangers with whom we have fallen in love eventually or at first sight.
Some of us couldn't make up our mind to tell that one person and he/she remained our crush forever. And some of us gathered our courage and confessed him/her.
Next few got accepted and few got rejected.
We who got rejected often either try to forget that person or continue loving them. The later is called 𝑼𝒏𝒓𝒆𝒒𝒖𝒊𝒕𝒆𝒅 𝑳𝒐𝒗𝒆.
Moreover, when we decide to not to confess our love to them but still continue with loving them, its also called 𝑶𝒏𝒆-𝒔𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒅 𝒍𝒐𝒗𝒆.
The love in which there's only one way attachment, in which the love of ours for them is not reciprocated back to us. The type of love in which the one whom we love, considers our love unwanted.
Most of us start doubting and judging our love for them. We question ourselves...
𝘞𝘢𝘴 𝘮𝘺 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦 𝘵𝘰𝘰 𝘱𝘰𝘰𝘳 𝘵𝘰 𝘣𝘦 𝘢𝘤𝘤𝘦𝘱𝘵𝘦𝘥?
𝘞𝘢𝘴 𝘮𝘺 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘩𝘪𝘮/𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘺 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘵𝘩𝘭𝘦𝘴𝘴?
𝘈𝘮 𝘐 𝘣𝘦𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧𝘪𝘴𝘩 𝘣𝘺 𝘸𝘪𝘴𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘩𝘪𝘮/𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘵𝘰 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦 𝘮𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘸𝘢𝘺 𝘐 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦 𝘩𝘪𝘮/𝘩𝘦𝘳?
𝘐𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘫𝘶𝘴𝘵 𝘢𝘯𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘸𝘪𝘴𝘩 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘯𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘦 𝘵𝘳𝘶𝘦?
𝘊𝘢𝘯 𝘐 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘨𝘦𝘵 𝘰𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘩𝘪𝘮/𝘩𝘦𝘳?
𝘞𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘐 𝘣𝘦 𝘢𝘣𝘭𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘨𝘦𝘵 𝘩𝘪𝘮/𝘩𝘦𝘳?
And many more....
𝙒𝙖𝙨 𝙢𝙮 𝙡𝙤𝙫𝙚 𝙩𝙤𝙤 𝙥𝙤𝙤𝙧 𝙩𝙤 𝙗𝙚 𝙖𝙘𝙘𝙚𝙥𝙩𝙚𝙙 𝙗𝙮 𝙝𝙞𝙢/𝙝𝙚𝙧?
In my opinion, the one who is pouring one's heart through love, only has the right to decide it's worth.
Even if our love is compared unwanted, we must know the value of it and never let other's opinion undervalue it.
We should never think of our love worthless just because it was never reciprocated back. Because we shouldn't over look the fact that we still have the ability to love someone, and give it someone. We shouldn't focus on the ways they are mistreating our love instead we should focus on the fact that we still have love within us which makes us a beautiful person.
𝙒𝙖𝙨 𝙢𝙮 𝙡𝙤𝙫𝙚 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙝𝙞𝙢/𝙝𝙚𝙧 𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙮 𝙬𝙤𝙧𝙩𝙝𝙡𝙚𝙨𝙨?
Our love sometimes may not be worthless to them. Just because he/she doesn't love you the way you want doesn't mean that he/she doesn't love you or regards your love worthless. Again, if he/she fails to return our love, we shouldn't suppose it to be futile.
𝘼𝙢 𝙄 𝙗𝙚𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙨𝙚𝙡𝙛𝙞𝙨𝙝 𝙗𝙮 𝙬𝙞𝙨𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙝𝙞𝙢/𝙝𝙚𝙧 𝙩𝙤 𝙡𝙤𝙫𝙚 𝙢𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙬𝙖𝙮 𝙄 𝙡𝙤𝙫𝙚 𝙝𝙞𝙢/𝙝𝙚𝙧?
We all give our love to others with a hope to receive the same. And hoping to receive your requited love isn't being selfish. Just like the way we have the right to offer love, we also have the right to receive it.
But again no matter how much you love him/her, how much you treat him/her well, how much you value him/her, he/she might not do the same to you because these people just fail to see the true worth and this isn't your fault that they don't know how to treasure gold.
𝙄𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙨 𝙟𝙪𝙨𝙩 𝙖𝙣𝙤𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧 𝙬𝙞𝙨𝙝 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙬𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙣𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙧 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙚 𝙩𝙧𝙪𝙚?
Sometimes time acts as the greatest remedy here. All we need to do is wait. If he/she is meant to be yours, he/she would come back. But if he/she never returns to you, you may or may not continue loving him/her because just like only you have the right to give your love a worth, you also have have the right decide whom and how much you want to shower your love on.
𝘾𝙖𝙣 𝙄 𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙧 𝙜𝙚𝙩 𝙤𝙫𝙚𝙧 𝙝𝙞𝙢/𝙝𝙚𝙧? 𝙄𝙛 𝙣𝙤𝙩, 𝙨𝙝𝙤𝙪𝙡𝙙 𝙄 𝙟𝙪𝙨𝙩 𝙖𝙥𝙤𝙡𝙤𝙜𝙞𝙯𝙚 𝙢𝙮𝙨𝙚𝙡𝙛 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙩𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙢𝙮𝙨𝙚𝙡𝙛 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙨 𝙬𝙖𝙮?
In this phase of time, we are all advised by our friends or family to move on and try falling for someone else, someone better. Sometimes, they are correct to say this because One-sided love is like cactus, the more you hug them tightly, the more you get hurt.
Again, you are the one who should decide whom you want to love, so if you want to continue loving them, you can always love them how much you want. You can't stop the feeling you have for someone. You can't lie to yourself either. Your heart knows the truth all well too. And don't ever apologise or feel sorry for loving the way your heart knows how.
𝙒𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙄 𝙗𝙚 𝙖𝙗𝙡𝙚 𝙩𝙤 𝙛𝙤𝙧𝙜𝙚𝙩 𝙝𝙞𝙢/𝙝𝙚𝙧?
Sometimes you have to forget what you feel and remember what you deserve. We all deserve to be loved.
However, love is like standing on a lately laid wet cement. The more long you stand, the more hard it gets to get out of there. Even when you get out there, footprint remain there forever.
