A man found the cocoon of a butterfly. One day a small opening appeared. the curious man sat and watched the butterfly for several hours instead of looking out for his farm. he watched it as it struggled to force its body through that little hole. He thought it needed help and it would die if he didn't help.and after a while the butterfly stayed still and he thought it can't go no further.So the man decided to help the butterfly. He took a pair of scissors and snipped off the remaining bit of the cocoon. he felt so proud of himself for helping the butterfly. The butterfly then emerged
easily. But it had a swollen body and small shriveled wings.
it was limping miserably.The man continued to watch the butterfly because he expected that, at
any moment, the wings would enlarge and expand to be able to support the
body, which would contract in time. Neither happened! In fact, the butterfly
spent the rest of its life crawling around with a swollen body and shriveled
wings. and slow died a painful death. It never was able to fly.
What the main in his kindness and haste did not understand was that
the restricting cocoon and the struggle required for the butterfly to fly beutifuly. we need some struggle it go higher in the world. Sometimes struggles are exactly what we need in our life.If we were
allowed to go through our life without any obstacles, it would cripple us.We
would not be as strong as we could have been. And we could never fly. So it's ok to struggle a little than asking unnecessary helps.